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Meeting New People

First impressions, joining new groups, networking events, or making new connections.

30-Second Summary

Most people are too worried about what you think of them to judge you harshly. Everyone at networking events feels some level of awkward. You're not alone.

Key Insight

First impressions are way less permanent than RSD makes them feel. People's opinions of you will form over multiple interactions, not one awkward hello.

One Thing To Do

Focus on making them comfortable instead of impressing them. Ask questions about them. Curiosity is always more charming than performance.