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Not Being Invited
Finding out about a gathering, party, or event you weren't included in.
30-Second Summary
Not every exclusion is intentional or personal. People make small gatherings all the time without it meaning anything about your friendship.
Key Insight
You can't be invited to everything. Even close friends have overlapping social circles and events that naturally include some people and not others. This is normal, not rejection.
One Thing To Do
Instead of dwelling on this event, plan something yourself. Invite the people you want to see. Take control rather than waiting to be chosen.